First, I want to note that the words I used to describe my relationship structures evolved over the years. First, I called it companionship, next designer relationship, then non-monogamous, and now solo poly; never sought monogamy even though I felt the pressure to.
My progression came from paying attention to how I felt over the years; my continuous growth of awareness of myself and others.
For one I value individuality; therefore, I want to feel that I can be my complete self, along with my partner/s feeling that they can do the same.
Secondly, I naturally am a person that wants to spend most of my time with myself; It shouldn鈥檛 be expected of me to give the majority of my time to someone else; that should be a choice, not a demand.
Thirdly, I value my own space; therefore, I鈥檓 pleased living alone and rather keep that living arrangement over moving in with my partner/s.
I often mention that I am Non-monogamous, which in my opinion, is an umbrella term that describes any type of relationship structure outside of a monogamy relationship, so being solo poly is one way of being non-monogamous.
When it comes to relationships structure, I like to design them based on what the people involved would want, including what I WANT, which means it ranges from very casual or deeply committed, short term or long term, sexually intimate or not, etc.
I seek to avoid hierarchy, which means I don鈥檛 want a primary partner; I treat all types of relationships with the same level of respect; one kind of relationship is not better than the other.
Which leads to me also being a relationship anarchy, which isn鈥檛 much different from solo poly besides relationship anarchy doesn鈥檛 differentiate between friends and partners. I don鈥檛 put restrictions on the types of relationships I engage in and are consensual.
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